Girl or woman? Victim or perpetrator?

Soon after I joined this community i wrote out a long reaction to a viral video of a DV incident caught on dashcam; more so the public's reaction which at the time felt more critical of the victim. Afterwards i found just penning it helped me to move on and in any case I didnt want to be doing too much when i now land in d community lol. So i chilled and never posted. Thankfully, i began to see a groundswell of sm users coming out to give the more reasonable perspective. Special mention to…